Birthday Tree Advice 6: December 1 to December 7
December 23rd - January 1st – Apple Tree
Beneath that tough exterior, you're truly a softie at heart. Let this side of yourself show. You'll be happiest if you can do things for others unselfishly.
January 2nd – January 11th – Fir Tree
Don't try to force your will on anyone. You definitely have a stubborn side, but let it be overshadowed by your willingness to be flexible. If you're not, you'll only dig a hole for yourself.
January 12th - January 24th – Elm Tree
The time to act is here. You're eager to get the show on the road! Just make sure you're acting from a place of intuitive creativity. The typical logical, business-oriented thoughts won’t be much help in this particular case.
January 25th – February 3rd – Cypress Tree
Think before you speak. Any rash moves you make in terms of saying exactly what's on your mind could have undesirable consequences. If you hesitate before you open your mouth, consider it a sign you should zip it.
February 4th – February 8th – Poplar Tree
There's some tension lingering around your home lately, so be soft and gentle to those around you. It's probably best to keep a low profile and mind your own business. In time, others will be in better moods.
February 8th – February 18th – Cedar Tree
Opportunities abound this week! What will you do with them? Don't worry if you feel like you're getting stagnant. There is plenty to do and see, you just have to be willing to stretch your boundaries a bit.
February 19th – February 28th – Pine Tree
What's gotten into everyone? Your loved ones are getting on your last nerve by acting moody and sensitive. Don't worry -- it's not your fault. Just let them ride out the crazy emotions for now and know you didn’t do anything wrong.
February 29th – Poplar Tree
Now is the time to be completely up front and honest with a loved one. No more beating around the bush. Say what you have to say, and be willing to hear opposing views. At least you'll get things out in the open.
March 1st – March 10th – Weeping Willow
Look for new opportunities and ideas. Ask your friends what they've been thinking about lately. Peruse the newspapers. Inspiration is there, just waiting to be found!
March 11th – March 20th – Lime Tree
If managing your finances has become tricky, you are in luck. A friend has some good advice that you should listen to. You might not like the sound of it at first, but once they show you the impact that they have made on their money situation, you will be a true believer!
March 21st – Oak Tree
You will be much easier to get along with this week, so make sure the ones you’d like to influence are close. You can actually sway them pretty easily with a small-scale charm offensive.
March 22nd - March 31st – Hazelnut Tree
You're feeling too good to take offense when someone busts out with a nasty joke or a rude gesture. If anything, it's all rather amusing -- they think they're being provocative, but they're just evoking pity.
April 1st – April 10th – Rowan Tree
If you want things to change, you have to be willing to put in a little bit more effort. Self discipline is not always fun, but it is always effective. Identify what you’d like, take action, and get ready for some changes.
April 11th – April 20th – Maple Tree
Visions of faraway places and exciting pastimes may dance in your head, and routine tasks seem incredibly tedious and unworthy of attention. It's best to get them done if you can. Then you can think about your vacation without guilt!
April 21st – April 30th – Walnut Tree
Your wisdom is deeper than ever right now -- so much so that you might find that you can offer up great advice without seeming like you're prying into anyone's personal life. Just remember to keep your meddling at bay and have other’s best interest at heart.
May 1st – May 14th – Poplar Tree
If you aren't confident about your abilities in a certain area, then the worst possible thing you can do is to say that you are a master of it. That kind of bluster and bravado might seem impressive, but it will only get you into some deep and very hot water. Be honest and humble -- the people who have authority over you will appreciate and respect it.
May 15th – May 24th – Chestnut Tree
You are feeling the need for a bit of self indulgence right now, and buying yourself one or two luxury items wouldn't be a bad idea. In fact, it will be money well spent! Splurge a little bit on yourself. It's okay!
May 25th – June 3rd – Ash Tree
Other people have a stake in what you are working on, and you need to let them be a part of your thought process. Share what you have been thinking, ask them for their input, and really listen hard when they give you their honest feedback. Your life is a solo journey to some extent, but it's so much richer and rewarding if you can let other people play a significant part.
June 4th – June 13th – Hornbeam Tree
You are feeling much more energetic than usual, and whether you're at work or dealing with personal issues, you can achieve an incredible amount. It may be a good time for you to push yourself.
June 14th – June 23rd – Fig Tree
Someone in your life needs objective advice -- or even a direction -- and only you can give it to them. Suggest that they solicit advice, then offer your own first. They pay more attention than you would have expected.
June 24th – Birch Tree
You are eager for your future to begin, but when will that starting point come? There is no telling, but a glimpse may come this week -- if you step back and give yourself space to see it.
June 25th – July 4th – Apple Tree
Move away from the people who are demanding so much of your time right now. They are distracting you from putting yourself first, and seeing what you need to do next. To get some clarity, you need to get some quiet time. Then, things will fall into place beautifully.
July 5th – July 14th – Fir Tree
Expect big challenges this week -- but they're the kind of challenges you can really sink your teeth into! You might end up impressing the right person, or at least showing someone you care about that you can pull off miracles.
July 15th – July 25th – Elm Tree
You will be dealing with a lot of different requests and invitations this week, which could confuse or even overwhelm you. So just take your time and think about your priorities. Once you do, it will be obvious what you should do first, and what you shouldn't do at all.
July 26th – August 4th – Cypress Tree
In all of your conversations this week you will want to avoid any and all misunderstandings -- because misunderstandings could grow into dangerous assumptions. You must aim for safety -- make sure all your actions and your comments are honest, and that people completely understand what you mean. Double check and confirm just to make sure.
August 5th – August 13th – Poplar Tree
You are poised to learn more than usual this week -- so pay attention! You may not get much practical done, but you should still find a way to placate your boss or teacher while you soak up knowledge.
August 14th – August 23rd – Cedar Tree
It's a wise idea to embark upon a new solo project right now. Whether you choose to go off on a trip by yourself or just take the afternoon to contemplate, it doesn't matter much. Just focus on you for a while so you can be refreshed with life and living.
August 24th – September 2nd – Pine Tree
Your sense of art and poetry is strong this week and you should find that your people are willing to listen as you ramble on and make connections they would never have dreamed of.
September 3rd – September 12th – Weeping Willow
Try to communicate your emotions clearly to the person you are worried about right now. Being brutally honest is tough sometimes, but it is much more valuable than softening the truth with little white lies. You might think that you are protecting their feelings, but you are only keeping them from knowing what they need to know to move forward.
September 13th - September 22 – Lime Tree
Consider your limits before relinquishing something of value or losing your self-respect. You stand to benefit by seriously thinking about what you're about to do before you make a deal.
September 23rd – Olive Tree
There is a quiet observer within you now who is making notes and plotting out a course of action, even if your hectic life is filled with craziness. Fortunately, your inner-strategist is not deterred by all the noise. Cultivate this adaptable aspect of your personality as you work hard to navigate your way through the turbulent seas that surround you at this time.
September 24th – October 3rd – Hazelnut Tree
You appear determined to prove yourself but it is important to understand positive change is gradual and realistic time must be given for something worthwhile to be achieved. Taking a slower and more methodical approach will win this race.
October 4th – October 13th – Rowan Tree
Your instincts about being called upon for assistance are probably correct. You may not have a problem with lending a hand, but you can't help but wonder if, by helping, you're setting a precedent with this person for the future. Trust that help you offer will ensure someone else is not only grateful but will also learn a thing or two about standing on their own two feet next time.
October 14th – October 23rd – Maple Tree
Do you want to be supportive of someone or their plan? Part of you is probably biting your tongue or struggling to refrain from speaking your mind but you know that being supportive is really the only option available. No one is expecting you to go overboard in the Support Department, but a tiny bit really will go a long way.
October 24th – November 11th – Walnut Tree
Sometimes, we struggle to make decisions and resent the fact that we have to make them. We recognize how making decisions changes aspects of our lives but prefer to choose when we make decisions rather than have the need thrust upon us. Don't be resentful toward a difficult choice you must make now. You're about to be freed from a tired and uninspiring situation.
November 12th – November 21st – Chestnut Tree
Some people create culinary masterpieces with the basic of ingredients. Even those who don't possess much cooking experience can impress themselves and others with a bit of imagination. If you don't have what you need on hand now, can you improvise? Apply imagination to overcome what you don't have and you can create something wonderful.
November 22nd – December 1st – Ash Tree
Why is it that some leaders command respect effortlessly while others struggle to even get the attention of those they're meant to be leading? The difference lies with those each is leading having faith in their leader. You are being looked at for leadership now in a certain area. Rarely, has your ability to command respect been so high. If you take the initiative, others will follow.
December 2nd – December 11th – Hornbeam Tree
Are you feeling slightly out of your depth? Do you perhaps feel that you have, in some way, been left behind? If you are, then it is time face something you currently don't understand. You will be encouraged now to learn a new skill, trick or trade.
December 12th – December 21st – Fig Tree
Are your talents or skills being used in ways they should be? You know what you're capable of and appear to have one particular talent that, with the help of one or two others, could be taken to a much more satisfying level but are finding others to be more reactive than you were expecting. Recognition of what you can do or offer will be received.
December 22nd – Beech Tree
Pride might get in your way this week. Perhaps you will be asked to do a task that you consider beneath you. Perhaps the people around you are feeling persnickety. Rise above the insults and make a special effort to do the best you can, and defuse the situation before it gets out of hand.
不要试图将你的意愿强加给任何人。你确实有顽固的一面, 但用你愿意改变的意愿掩盖你那固执的一面吧。如果不, 你只会给自己挖坑。
最近你家萦绕着一些紧张气氛, 所以你要柔和, 对你周围的人要温柔。最好保持低调, 管好你自己的事。随着时间, 他们的情绪会有所好转的。
这星期机会比比皆是! 你会如何对待他们呢? 如果你感到停滞不前的话，别担心。还有大量的事情要去做和去看, 你只用去扩展一下你的界限。
每个人都怎么搞的? 你所爱的人表现地喜怒无常，敏感，都要使你发神经了。别担心, 这不是你的错。只是现在让他们渡过疯狂情绪的阶段，要知道你没做错什么事。
现在是时候在你所爱的那个人面前完全坦诚了。不再拐弯抹角。说出你想要说的, 愿意听取反对意见。至少, 你把事情告诉他了。
如果你的财务管理成为了棘手的问题, 你真的走运了。一个朋友对此有一些好的建议, 你应该听听。最初你可能并不赞同他的建议, 但是，一旦他向你展示在此建议下，他的经济状况时, 你就会相信了。
因为你自我感觉很好，所以当有人恶作剧或伸出一个粗鲁的手势时，你并不会感觉生气。说到底, 这十分有趣--他们认为他们是在挑衅, 但他们只是唤起你对他们的怜悯。
如果你希望事情有所改变, 你必须愿意付出一点努力。自律并不总是很有趣,但是它总是有效的。确定你想要的, 采取行动, 变化自然会出现。
如果在一个特定的方面，你对自己的能力并没有信心, 那么可能出现的最坏的情况就是你说对此很在行。这样的虚张声势可能看起来让人印象深刻, 但这只会给你带来一些麻烦。诚实和谦逊, 你的领导者会欣赏和尊重它的。
现在你感到需要一点自我放纵, 给自己买一件或两件奢侈品不是一个坏主意。事实上, 它将会物有所值! 对自己挥霍一下，没关系的!
有其它人与你正在进行的工作存在利害关系, 你需要让他们成为你思维过程的一部分。与他们分享你一直在思考的, 问问他们的意见,并真正用心听取他们给你的诚恳的反馈。在某种程度上，你的人生就是一场孤单的旅行,但如果你能让其他人在你的生活中扮演一个重要的部分的话，那你的生活会更加丰富和有回报。
你渴望崭新的未来赶快到来, 但什么时候才会开始呢? 很难说, 但本周你可能会一窥究竟--如果你退一步,给自己空间去看的话。
远离那些现在花费你这么多时间的人们。他们分散你的注意力，使你无法把自己放在第一位, 看看自己接下来要做些什么。若要看的更清楚, 你需要一些安静的时间。然后,事情会漂亮的进展下去。
本周预计会有大的挑战—--但是这些挑战是你很在行的事情! 你可能最终会给适当的人留下深刻的印象, 或者至少在你关心的人面前显示你可以化不可能为可能。
本周你将会面对很多不同的请求和邀请, 这可能会使你感到混淆，或者甚至使你喘不过气来。所以不要着急，好好想想事情的轻重。一旦你这样做了, 你首先应该做的事情就会变得很明显, 以及你根本不应该做的事情。
本周你正准备比平常学习得更多—--所以注意了! 你可能不会完成太多实际的东西, 但是在你吸收知识时，你仍然应该找到一个方法来使你的上司或老师感到你还是在学习的。
现在开始一个新的，独自完成的计划是一个明智的决定。无论你选择离开，独自旅行或只是一个下午的深思, 都不要紧。仅仅关注于你自己一些时间, 这样你就可以拥有新的生命和生活。
试图向你担心的人清晰地传达你的想法。无情的真诚有时很困难, 但是它比用善意的小谎言歪曲的事实更有价值。你可能会认为你在保护他们的感觉, 但你只是在阻碍他们意识到他们前行所应该知道的。
9月13日- 9月22 -酸橙树
现在，在你内心深处有一个安静的观察者，他在筹划一个行动, 即使你繁忙的生活中充满了疯狂。幸运的是, 你内心的战略家并没有被周围的嘈杂所吓倒。当你努力地去冲出重围时，要培养你这种适应性强的一面。
你被呼吁寻求帮助的直觉可能是真的。他人借你的一臂之力对你可能不是问题, 但你禁不住想知道, 通过帮助, 这个人在未来会不会一直打扰你。相信你所提供的帮助不仅会使他感激不尽，而且他还能向你学一两招下次独立解决问题的方法。
你想支持某人或他的计划吗? 一部分的你可能想忍住不说或努力避免发表自己的想法, 但你知道支持他是真正的唯一选择。没有人期望你帮过头, 但一点点的支持真的还是有益的。
有时,我们很难作出决定并对此感到痛苦。我们认识到，不同的决定会改变我们生活的不同的方面, 但我们还是更喜欢自己做决定, 掌控自己的抉择。不要为你现在必须做出的艰难选择而感到厌烦。你即将从疲倦, 乏味的生活中所释放。
有些人能用基本的原料创造出烹饪佳肴。即使那些不具备太多烹饪经验的人也可以使自己感到吃惊；或者那些采用一点想象力的人们。如果现在你没有你所需要的东西, 你可以即兴创作吗? 运用想象力来克服你所没有的, 你将创造出美好的事物。
为什么一些领导者毫不费力地得到别人的尊重，而其他领导者却甚至挣扎地去吸引那些他们要领导的人们的注意力? 区别在于，前者，人们对他们的领导者充满了信任与忠诚。现在你在某个方面被视为领导者。罕见的是, 你有能力使别人对你产生如此高的尊敬。如果你首先发起行动, 别人会紧跟其后。
你感觉你对一些事情不知所措了吗? 你也许觉得你已经落后于他人了? 如果是,那么是时候面对一些你目前不理解的事物了。你将要学习一项新的技能、技巧或交易。
12月12日- 12月21日 -无花果树
你的天赋或者技能被用于他们应该使用的方面了吗? 你知道你的才能,似乎有一个特别的天赋, 在一个或两个人的帮助下 ,可以达到一个更令人满意的水平, 但发现其他人比你预期的更活越。你的才能将会被得到肯定。
本周你的骄傲可能会影响你。也许你将被要求做一件事, 你认为不值得你动手的事。你周围的人也许感到你很挑剔。放下你的傲气，付出额外的努力去做到你的最好, 在事态失控前缓和局势。