Birthday Tree Advice 10: January 11 to January 18
December 23rd - January 1st – Apple Tree
No one likes a spoiled sport, and that’s how you’ve been acting. You do feel justified to act this way, however, and don’t really see anything wrong with your attitude. This is all well and good until someone has a conflicting point of view. Try to work through your feelings this week. Friendships might depend on it.
January 2nd – January 11th – Fir Tree
No one wants to play your games this week and you are bored. You have been a little manipulative lately, so can you really blame them? Examine your needs for human contact. Do you really want people around for fun? Or are you looking for things to control?
January 12th - January 24th – Elm Tree
You are a very trusting and kind person. However, recent events are making you a little more wary and suspicious. All you need to do is listen to your inner voice and honor the awarenesses you are really having. If you do this, you will find that you can have a real sense of trust—in you!
January 25th – February 3rd – Cypress Tree
You get very excited about things and yet have a hard time following through. When you make plans, do your best to keep them. Sure, remaining open to possibilities is a good thing. But when you find you aren’t getting anything done, don’t be surprised if your point of view is really what is creating your reality.
February 4th – February 8th – Poplar Tree
You’ve been feeling under the weather and a little sad as of late. You aren’t really sure what is causing all this heaviness, either. You’d love to rid yourself of the negativity, right? Start asking yourself “How can I contribute to my life and living?” Things will start to shift soon enough if you just ask for it.
February 9th – February 18th – Cedar Tree
When you start to feel overwhelmed ask yourself, “What can I do here right now that will provide me with peace?” You really do have a lot on your plate right now. Keep in mind that you can only eat an elephant one bite at a time. The same holds true for all that you have to do right now. Take it one bite at a time.
February 19th – February 28th – Pine Tree
Someone has been giving you the cold shoulder. If this person is a good friend, see what you can do to remedy the situation. Think about this a little bit—perhaps it isn’t worth it in the end. Either way, you need to make a choice and handle this since it is turning into something that drains you.
February 29th – Poplar Tree
This is the week for celebration and enjoying life! Kick your heels up and have some fun! Eat cake, see a movie, and indulge. You are feeling light and flying high. If you can invite a friend to join, do so. Share the merriment and fun!
March 1st – March 10th – Weeping Willow
You will be lucky this week. Keep your eyes open and see what shows up. Look for cash on the sidewalk, friends might give you something useful, who knows? This week enjoy a good, well-deserved stroke of good luck.
March 11th – March 20th – Lime Tree
The daily humdrum of life is getting a little boring for you and you are thinking about shaking things up a bit. Plan a trip, eat some exotic foods, even a wild party with friends will help you bust out of the monotony. Live it up this week and make efforts to change things up!
March 21st – Oak Tree
You’ve made some interesting decisions about people and it turns out you are only about half right. You might need to make amends if these people are important figures in your life. At the very least, now that you know better, change your approach going forward and this should make things easier on you and them.
March 22nd - March 31st – Hazelnut Tree
You feel especially like spring should be happening now. You are tired of feeling the cold hands of winter. You might need to do something to cheer yourself up. Paint a room in your house a warm, happy shade of yellow, drink some lemonade, or find some artwork that makes you feel calm and warm all over. These little changes will help you feel better and make it easier to wait for spring.
April 1st – April 10th – Rowan Tree
You are feeling like a river stone that is being rushed past by the waters of life. Why doesn’t anything stop and stay with you? Why does it always have to hurry on by? You must remember that the only thing that is constant is change. If you can embrace your role as the beautiful stone, the rushing rivers actually bring contentment with the changes.
April 11th – April 20th – Maple Tree
Don’t worry about things you cannot influence. This includes things that have happened and are in the past. You will only stress yourself out if you dwell on this. Let it go. Focus on what you’d really like in the here and now. If you can visualize it, you can create it. What would you like to have?
April 21st – April 30th – Walnut Tree
You are peppy, happy, and usually upbeat. This week people will be drawn to you and your genuinely agreeable nature.
May 1st – May 14th – Poplar Tree
You’ve been feeling like people are taking advantage of you and you are really upset about it. You need to look at the fact that you knowingly let them take advantage. Either you like them too much, or you are desperate for companionship. If you can see your part in creating the mess you can uncreate it and do better next time.
May 15th – May 24th – Chestnut Tree
Don’t let people put you down this week. Stand up for what you believe in, and this includes you! Only you have the whole story of your life, so why would you let others be greater than you? It is time to make you and your points of view on your life the big deal.
May 25th – June 3rd – Ash Tree
Life can be a little tricky sometimes. You feel like it can be like a game, and you are very excited when you think you have things figured out. Only it is usually at that very moment life throws you for a loop. If you can see that the loop is part of an exciting roller coaster, you will have way more fun.
June 4th – June 13th – Hornbeam Tree
Plan to do something fun with some friends this week. If you have some good friends, do something special. Plan a fun party or maybe even a fun vacation together. If you don’t have many good friends, no trouble— you can also have fun with yourself! Remember the relationship you have with you is just as important as anything. Do something kind for yourself and enjoy.
June 14th – June 23rd – Fig Tree
People just don’t have a clue sometimes, right? And you are just too happy to leap in there and tell them all about it. But don’t you feel that your life is full of people who turn into turtles when you come around? Maybe learn to keep some of your good advice to yourself and ask more questions about them instead. You might find that the turtles will pop their heads out and enjoy you more this way.
June 24th – Birch Tree
You’ve been tasked with “busy work” this week and you are not that excited about it. What you’d really like is something you can sink your teeth into. Your gifts and talents aren’t being utilized at all. If the project is temporary, good. If not, look for new work elsewhere. Your happiness could depend on it.
June 25th – July 4th – Apple Tree
Money, money all around but not a cent for you! If this is how you’ve been feeling lately, you aren’t alone. Take a moment to reflect on your feelings. Are you sensing other people and what they are doing with money? Do you need to budget better or save more? Take a look at your finances this week and make any adjustments you know will better serve you.
July 5th – July 14th – Fir Tree
You’ve been tasked with a chore that you really dislike. Why does it always seem that it comes down to this? Take a look at what you really dislike in this situation. Is there a reason why this keeps representing itself to you? Is there something here for you to learn? Seeing the pattern is the first step in breaking the pattern.
July 15th – July 25th – Elm Tree
You have so much love and affection to give to, well, everyone! The problem is that sometimes you overwhelm people with your energy. The trick is to let them be while not going to wrongness of you. You have so much love you could nourish the world for ages on end. Focus on that larger picture and a minor rebuffing won’t be such a big deal.
July 26th – August 4th – Cypress Tree
You need a break from, well, everything! Things have gotten a little nuts and you don’t like it at all. You are happiest in a state of controlled adventure, where you know what is going to happen next, yet have a sense of freedom and newness. When things get a little too up in the air, you shut down. This creates health issues for you. If you can learn to remain open, even when uncomfortable, your body will thank you.
August 5th – August 13th – Poplar Tree
You are like a slow burning fire. The embers are warm and provide comfort, and the glow is peaceful and creates safety. This is part of your charm, part of who you are, and part of the greatness of you. The best part is, your embers never burn out—you are steady and reliable, just crackling away and being wonderful.
August 14th – August 23rd – Cedar Tree
Yes you are cute, and yes, people like you. This isn’t any reason, however, to act vain and overly flirtatious. Come back to your more humble and wise state. The superficial doesn’t give you the real satisfaction you desire so redirect your attention.
August 24th – September 2nd – Pine Tree
You usually like humdrum, the guaranteed, and the predictable. You don’t usually like surprises and prefer to see the outside world from the safety of your accepted and controlled environment. If you are willing to step outside, even for a moment, great adventures could happen. But you wouldn’t want this, now would you?
September 3rd – September 12th – Weeping Willow
You liked things how they were and are a little sad about recent changes, even though you knew they were impending. Soon enough you will have all you desire, you just have to wait a little bit. Focus your attention not on the minor loss but on creating instead.
September 13th - September 22nd – Lime Tree
You’ve always hated the “learning curve.” You just want to get it and move on! You feel stupid when you don’t get it as quickly as you’d like, and hold yourself to a very high standard. Maybe consider lowering the bar just a bit—no one can live up to those standards, and it is unkind to make yourself try. Don’t set yourself up to create unhappiness.
September 23rd – Olive Tree
Time to add something to your life. The question is, what? What can you add that will bring you greater joy in living? Only you know in this case.
September 24th – October 3rd – Hazelnut Tree
You just wish you could play all day long and take some time off from having to do all the stuff you have to do! See if you can at least make time for something fun every day. Hard work is fine, but if you don’t have any time left over to do the fun things, you will get burned out and depressed.
October 4th – October 13th – Rowan Tree
You have had to make some hard choices recently and are still dealing with the fall out. Most people would never make the kinds of concessions you have, which is good and bad. You are willing to go the distance to get what you’d like and this is admirable, but it also means that you are going to suffer in the meantime.
October 14th – October 23rd – Maple Tree
You have a mystical and intuitive side to your nature. Sometimes this scares people. Somehow, you just know things about them that maybe you shouldn’t! The reality is that you are very aware. Trust in these gifts and talents and you will never be led astray.
October 24th – November 11th – Walnut Tree
You’ve been feeling conflicted and torn between two exciting prospects: security and decadence. But you’ve been having a tough time choosing what you’d like. Both options are really appealing. Is there a way to reconcile them both and have it all? If you change your point of view to this, suddenly it doesn’t have to be an either/or situation.
November 12th – November 21st – Chestnut Tree
Now is the time to take action. Stop putting off your dreams. Find a way to take that important trip, get your work published, do what you have to do to get where you’d like to go. Get inspired. You know what you need to do.
November 22nd – December 1st – Ash Tree
You’ve been having small panic attacks and you think money is the issue. In reality, you’ve been distracting yourself in worrying about money. Money isn’t the issue. You just think it is. Come away from thinking about money and ask yourself what this is really about. Time for clarity.
December 2nd – December 11th – Hornbeam Tree
You feel like your luck has all but dried up and you don’t think you did anything to cause this, either! What injustice! You can either get bitter, or you can go out and create or find some new luck.
December 12th – December 21st – Fig Tree
Be proactive and make efforts to ask for what you’d like. Be the invitation and soon you will have more clients, more money, and more people looking to assist you in your life and living. Give up doubt as a distraction.
December 22nd – Beech Tree
You see potentially dark challenges looming in the distance. They look like dark, snow-covered mountains. Time to outfit yourself for the things to come. You know you have to cross those mountains. How well you do will depend on what you choose, now.
你会对事情变得非常兴奋,然而却坚持不了多长时间。当你制定计划的时候, 你最好能按计划进行。当然, 抱有事情会有所变化的想法是一件好事。但是，当你发现你什么事也完成不了时,不要为你的观点其实是造成这样结果的原因而惊讶。
有人最近对你有些冷淡。如果这个人是一个很好的朋友, 看看你能做些什么来挽救局面。要想到这一点，也许到最后这样做是不值得的。无论哪种, 你需要做出选择，解决这件事，因为它正在渐渐使你心力憔悴。
这周是时候去庆祝并享受生活了!玩得开心点! 吃个蛋糕,看个电影,放纵一下。精神爽朗。如果你可以邀请朋友加入, 那就更好了。分享欢乐和乐趣吧!
本周你会很幸运。睁大眼睛, 看看好运什么时候会出现。人行道上的现金或 朋友可能会给你一些有用的东西,谁知道呢?本周享受你那当之无愧的好运气吧。
日常单调的生活变得有些无聊了,你正在考虑要改变这一点。计划一次旅行, 品尝异域美食, 甚至和朋友们的狂欢聚会，都将帮助你摆脱单调。本周尽情狂欢，努力去改变你那单调的生活吧!
对一些人，你做了一些有趣的决定, 结果你只有大约一半是正确的。你可能需要弥补过失，如果这些人是重要的人物的话。至少, 现在你对情况有了更深的了解, 改变你将来处事的方式, 这应该会使事情变得更容易,对你和对他人.
你觉得春天应该现在就到了。你已经厌倦了冬天里那冰冷的双手。你可能需要做点什么来让自己快乐起来。用一个温暖又幸福的黄色粉刷一个房间, 喝点柠檬水, 或寻找一些艺术品, 能让你感到处处平静和温暖。这些小小的变化将使你感觉更好, 使对春天的等待不那么辛苦.
你感觉自己就像一块被生命的河流冲刷的岩石。为什么没有任何事物能停下来，在你的生活中保持不变呢? 为什么万事匆匆? 你必须记住,唯一不变的就是变化。如果你能接受作为一块美丽的石头, 湍急的河流实际上在以不断的变化而带给你满足感。
你感觉人们在利用你，你对此很烦恼。你需要看到事实, 你在有意让他们利用。你要么太喜欢他们了, 要么你渴求陪伴。如果你能看到是自己导致这烂摊子的话, 你也能使自己脱身而出, 下次做得更好些。
这个星期，不要让别人贬低你。坚持你所相信的, 这也包括你! 只有你了解自己的生活, 所以,为什么让别人来影响你的生活呢?是时候自己做主并坚持自己对生活的观点了。
生活有时会有点棘手。你觉得它像一场游戏, 你很兴奋, 当你认为你已经明白了其中的一些道理。可是通常就在那一刻, 生活让你又绕了个圈子。如果你能看到，这个圈子其实就是令人兴奋的过山车的一部分,你将会拥有更多乐趣。
计划和朋友们做一些有趣的事情。如果你有一些好朋友, 做一些特别的事情。策划一个有趣的聚会或甚至是一个有趣的假期。如果你没有那么多好朋友, 没关系，你自己也可以玩的很开心! 要记得，你和你自己的关系与别的关系是一样重要。对自己好一点，享受生活吧。
人们有时就是没有一点觉察,对吗? 你总是那么高兴得和他们分享一切。但是，你不觉得，当你来到他们身边时，你的生活中充满了缩着头的海龟? 也许学会保留一些好建议，相反询问更多关于他们的问题。你可能会发现, 这些海龟的头又伸了出来，这种方式他们会更喜欢。
这周，你被“繁忙的工作”冲昏了头脑，对此你并非特别兴奋。你真正想要的是你可以施展才华的工作。你的天赋和才能一点都没有被利用。如果任务是暂时的, 那很好。如果不是, 另寻他职。你的幸福可能由此决定。
钱到处可见, 可没有一分钱是你的!如果这就是你最近一直感觉的,你并不孤单。花点时间思考你的感受。你在思考别人是怎么处理他们的金钱问题吗？还是你需要预算更好或存更多的钱呢? 本周看看你的财务状况，作出任何你认为对你好的调整。
你被任命去做一件苦差事,你真的不喜欢。为什么总是这样？看看在这种情况下，你到底不喜欢什么。是不是有原因这样的事情总是不请自来? 这里有没有需要你学习的地方? 了解了这个模式才是打破模式的第一步。
你就像一团缓慢燃烧的火焰。温暖的余烬, 给人以舒适；光芒又是那么平和并能创造安全感。这是你魅力的一部分,你的一部分, 也是你优秀的一部分。最棒的是, 你的余烬从不会熄灭—-你是那么的沉稳、可靠, 好似烛光一般。
你通常喜欢单调, 有所保证,和可预测的事物。你通常不喜欢惊喜, 不喜欢看到安全范围，你所能接受和控制的环境以外的世界。如果你愿意走出去,哪怕只是一小会儿, 伟大的冒险可能会发生。但你过去不会想要这样,现在你会吗?
你喜欢事情原本的样子, 对最近的变化有点难过,即使你早已知道他们的到来。很快，你就会拥有你所渴望的东西,你只需要等待。不要过多关注暂时、微小的损失, 相反要多关注更新。
你总是讨厌“学习曲线” 。你只是想获得它，并继续前进!你觉得自己很愚蠢, 当你不能像你想要的那样快速理解, 给自己设定非常高的标准。也许考虑降低标准一点点，没有人能达到这些标准, 那么严格的要求自己有些残酷。不要让自己不快。
是时间给你的生活添加一些东西了。问题是, 是什么呢? 你能添加什么东西来给你带来更大的生活乐趣呢? 在这种情况下，只有你知道。
你有一个神秘的和充满直觉的本质。有时这种本质令别人害怕。不知何故, 你就是了解他们的许多,也许你不该! 事实是,你很清楚。相信这些天赋和才能, 你将永远不会被引入歧途。
你一直感到很矛盾，在两个令人兴奋的前景之间左右为难:安全与放纵。但是你已经很难选择你想要的了。这两种选择都是那么吸引人。是否有一种方法来协调两者、获得一切呢? 如果你改变你的视角在这上面, 突然间它就不必是一个非此即彼的情况了。
现在是时候采取行动了。停止推迟你的梦想。想办法去完成那一次重要的旅行, 出版你的作品, 做你必须做得来获得你想要的。受到启迪。你知道你需要做什么。
你觉得你的运气已经榨干了,你也不认为这是你的原因! 多不公平啊! 你要么可以变得更加怨天尤人, 要么你可以出去创造或发现一些新的好运。
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